Etiquette Enderman
Etiquette Enderman makes Endermen ask a player for consent before they turn hostile, through a dialog the player answers.
What it does
Before an Enderman becomes aggressive toward a player, the player is shown a dialog asking whether they agree to it. Only players who accept the prompt are targeted. The mod is built for servers and runs server-side only, so players join without installing anything. Fabric is the only loader with files, and the 1.0.0 build targets 1.21.10, released 2025-11-12 under the GNU General Public License v3.0 or later as open source.
Key features
Consent dialog
An Enderman asks the target player through a dialog whether they agree to be attacked before it turns aggressive.
Opt-in targeting
Only a player who accepts the dialog becomes a target, so unwilling players are left alone by hostile Endermen.
Server-side only
The mod runs on the server alone, and players connecting to that server need no installation.
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Compatibility
Latest build for each game version and loader.
Only full game releases are shown. This mod publishes no snapshot builds.
How it compares
Super Enderman is a Fabric and NeoForge mod for 1.21 – 1.21.5 that runs on both client and server, released under the MIT License as open source. PvP Consent is also server-side only and open source under the MIT License, but it is built for 1.20.2. Enderman Tweaks is a Fabric mod for 1.20.1 that works with the client or server as optional, under the MIT License.
| Mod | Loaders | Game versions | Environment | Updated |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Etiquette Enderman | Fabric | 1.21.10 | Server-side only | 2025-11-12 |
| Super Enderman | Fabric and NeoForge | 1.21 – 1.21.5 | Client and server | 2025-05-12 |
| PvP Consent | Fabric | 1.20.2 | Server-side only | 2025-11-09 |
| Enderman Tweaks | Fabric | 1.20.1 | Client or server, optional | 2024-08-03 |
Questions
Does Etiquette Enderman need to be installed on the client?
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What the author says
Endermen ask for consent before being aggroed if you look at them. Works server-side only. Endermen will ask the target player with a dialog for consent to become aggro.
Official listing
- Modrinth page
- modrinth.com/mod/etiquette-enderman
- Owner
- Kevinthegreat
- Published
- 2025-11-11
- Updated on Modrinth
- 2025-11-12
- Facts verified
- 2026-10-15
